Need some advice

Currently rocking these Work VSXX wheels on my Q50. 20×9.5 +29 O-disk all around. I love these wheels but theres something missing I feel. I switched back to my OEMs with 25mm spacers for the winter and somehow that looks more stanced if you will. Is it because the Works have too thin of a sidewall? 235/35/20 on the works and 245/40/19 on the OEMs. The car looks too tame for some reason and I cant figure out why.